He has a more typically masculine body, is older, more experienced and skilled in bed, and I am finding it increasingly difficult to perform

I am a gay man and have been married to my husband for 12 y…

During a brief separation, I had my first sexual experiences with cis and trans women. They were ecstatic

I’m a thirtysomething woman who has been with the same man since I was 21. I’ve always known I…

I don’t need to swing from the rafters, but I do need something more than moderately paced sex in the missionary position ...

I’m a 30-year-old man who met my current partner about eight months ago.…

It’s 13 years since we had sex. My libido has come roaring back – but she’s not interested

My wife and I, both women in our 60s, have been together for more than 20 years. We stopped having sex about …

The virtual sex life I enjoyed with someone else only made me realise what was missing at home. How can I make my marriage work again?

I have been with my husband for 10 years and have previously neve…

I have been struggling with erectile dysfunction ever since a bad breakup. The ‘blue pill’ works for me, but sex is still stressful

Twenty years ago I had a bad breakup with the mother of my children.…

I want us to stay together, but our sex drives are very different and I need to feel desired without the guilt of a secret affair

I am a thirtysomething woman and have been with my partner for six yea…

I used to struggle with living alone, but now I’m thriving. Should I give it all up?

My boyfriend and I are in our late 50s. He never married and doesn’t have kids, while I am divorced with two grown-…

I want him to be happy but we have young children and sex feels like a chore. What should I do?

I have been married for three years and no longer have any sexual desire. I am deeply in love, but my hu…

We used to have sex once a week on a Sunday, but since the menopause there has been no choice but to abstain. What can I do?

My wife and I are in our late 50s, have been married for 20 years and have …